Thursday, August 31st, 2006
LOve is not about things we have or what we have dine, but rather by what we have kearned from what wae have or what we have done.
LOve is not about things but a bout the soul. Things are important –and l am not suggesting that they are not –but they should not be mistaken for love, which they often are.
LOve is about first pain. Were it otherwise, libraries full of books about love and finding ourselves would not be necessary. These books would not be necessary. But Love is about pain, and so they are a nd this is. Indeed, we cannot know LOve unless we know pain, for it isthe pain itself that creates our abilities to know LOve.
We struggle with the pain to love because we continue to love pain. when we find ourself in love we are in great pain, with feelings of probable loss, of jealousy , of anxiety, of abandonment. we hae these feeling of pain because we perpetuate them out of our feelings of lack of self-worth. we are unwilling to let go of these feeling because it is better to know the certainty of the pain than the uncertainty of the new. so the feelings about the pain in ourselves simply get transferrred to our love lives.
